People...What Is The Perfect Gift?

It's really difficult in a marriage like ours to surprise each other. We share bank accounts, look at each other's phone, grab keys out of and dig through each other's bags to grab things for the other one.  We trade off which car we drive, dump paperwork on the same desk and share kids. So, when I opened the doors to our church fellowship hall, I kind of knew there was a party.  For me.

What I didn't know was exactly who was in the room or what was in store.  My husband did this. And he did it well.

People.
I couldn't look at them all at once... so many faces as I scanned table to table and I was overwhelmed with the most beautiful gift.   Friends.  Family.  Old and Young.  People who I see daily, weekly, monthly and some not nearly as often as I would like.

My niece and nephew from North Carolina- and their four kids first caught my eye.  I later learned they drove in for the party and had to drive back home the same night.  Owen, my great-nephew pulled one of his own treasures- a tiny silver heart - out of his pocket and handed it to me.  And, a big hug.  His sisters, Audrey and Norah both gave me hugs.  Ella, I didn't even try but she didn't cry so we are calling it a win.  Y'all, how cool is that?

Before I could make my way around the room, I was summoned to the front for This Is Your Life aka the Kelly and Karen show.

I sat down and listened as they read letters that my mom, step dad  and a favorite school teacher, Mrs. Shelton had written.  I watched as video played packed full of pictures from the last fifty years.

And then, the surprises began.

First, my Daddy, step mom Barbara, my baby brother, his girlfriend Rachel and my niece Erin came from around the corner.  They had drove from Tennessee to surprise me for the party.  My sister also drove in from NC.  She wasn't a big surprise, I think she may be a little bitter about that, but we all know I'd been more surprised if I hadn't seen her face when I walked in, then if she had hidden behind the corner.  She's just always there when it counts.  Both my parents, my stepparents and my siblings in one place.  Together.  What a gift.

hugging my Daddy

They asked me about the year 2000 and mentioned my special friend from that time frame.  I first guessed Matlock.  (long story,  you can ask me sometime)  Then they asked me to close my eyes and they played a tape from that friend- about four words in and I knew.  I knew that voice.  The accent. The sweet sound of my friend, Shanna.  And I knew she was around the corner.  She had to be.  And she was.  

Me & Shanna.
Biggest Surprise EVER!  

The show segmented my life  - babies.  I do love rocking me some babies.  My friends.  My children. And my husband.  Oh, that man!  The pictures of our hills and valleys flashed on the screen while Vince Gill's Me and You played over the speaker.  I was overcome with gratitude of God's love for me- when he placed Rex in my life.  How blessed we've been to love each other.

Every so often they'd ask me a question and I wasn't sure how much of an answer to give. But when they asked exactly what it was that has sustained me through life. That answer I had no problem with.  God, and the people he has put in my life to journey with me.

While I was showered with more kindness and gifts than I deserve, I saw the faces of people that I wouldn't trade all the money in the world for. I can't possibly list everyone in that room without forgetting someone, because, I am 50 y'all; but if you were there it wasn't a random invite.  It's because my sweet husband knew what the perfect gift for my birthday is... and that is you.

Of course we ate cake.  

And then we packed it up and took it home. I woke up the next morning thinking it might have been a dream. But it was real. My front porch was full of my people. We drank coffee in our PJ's and rushed to breakfast for 19 without makeup or showers.  

Daddy with almost all of his grand and great grands. 

Daddy and his kids. 

Jim, Shanna, Rex and Me, Jay & Teri
Visiting the Roanoke Star after dinner 

Me & Shanna at Blue Cow Ice Cream
Distance can't change a friendship like ours 

It took a few days for me to take in all the details that went into the night, a few days to grasp all the work and planning-  flowers, jeans, shoes and purses- my man knows me.  You need to know that  I do not take for granted the sacrifices made by everyone who attended. 

Thank you Rex for planning the perfect party and thank you to everyone who helped him pull it off! 

Mostly, thank you for being my people! 

Happy Sunday y'all!